Maybe I'll Be Fast As You
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Don (my boss) played Dwight Yoakam's This Time at work this afternoon because he is patently awesome.
Work was work was work; there's still a lot that's a mess, but I started culling old cookbooks from the Cooking section and managed to do a pretty decent job of it. Two bags from three shelves is quite a lot of old stuff about Jello molds that people aren't buying. Still, the Photography section continues to be in a shambles, despite improvements here and there, and I'm beginning to think it's my equivalent of a daughter who cares so little about fashion she goes out of her way to look (and smell) like an urchin. I wish I could somehow teach my offspring about the value of cleanliness withuot being a slave to mindless trends, but what's a mother (bookmonkey) to do?
Speaking of mothers, I talked to mine last night; every time I speak with her it's all that I can do not to sell off my stuff and move there *immediately*. I really think she's mellowed out enough where my deviant alternative lifestyle could be abided, and she really needs someone to get her out of the mess she's in...and maybe some companionship too. My sister is no help in either department, and she's intimated to me that I'm the only person who's lifted a finger to help her out of all the relatives she's called. She's behind on rent now (which has *somehow* ballooned to over $700), can't pay her cell phone bill, has trouble with gas and electric and just about every other bill she has. The city is still lagging behind on declaring her husband deceased so she can get his benefits (he's been missing for 10 years), her car is about to die, her yard is a mess, and she has chronic bronchitis that grew out of a punctured lung she suffered in a fall 18 months ago. How she's still *going* after all this time is beyond me. She's in a world of shit right now and there's very little I can do about it right now. Every time I think about it I want to panic and cry and hop on the next bus to Baltimore and get her out of this, but...I know that if I did that I wouldn't be able to go to Australia, or travel anywhere, or go to a monastery. There's this huge battle between being there for someone I love, devoting myself to her, and...living my life and helping as much as possible while doing so. I send her a good chunk of the extra money I have, and I call often, but...how much *good* is that doing?
I need to look at my options. I'm tempted to really push for her to move here; rent would be much, much lower, she'd be near me and living here is really easy. I think she'd really like being in Arkansas. But that would make leaving Fayetteville impossible for the next few years, even if I did travel for several months around the US and Australia. Besides, Baltimore is all she knows, and I'm not really sure she'd be ready to leave. She'd *need* me if she moved, absolutely without a doubt. I'm cool with that part, but my living space is about to be really up in the air next year, so...eh.
I love her. I just don't know what to do.
But, to change gears, the essay on the Fayetteville smoking ban is going all right. It's not good, by any stretch, but I'm going to finish it for posting here, and hopefully people can help me figure out how to make it better. One of the things I really want to do is get a bigger sense of humor about my writing. I know it's in me to let it go and not take things quite so seriously, but while I'm finding my own personal vein I come off as one of those really lame-ass third-rate country comedians; Bubba the Love Sponge or Roy D. Mercer. It's awful.
Work was work was work; there's still a lot that's a mess, but I started culling old cookbooks from the Cooking section and managed to do a pretty decent job of it. Two bags from three shelves is quite a lot of old stuff about Jello molds that people aren't buying. Still, the Photography section continues to be in a shambles, despite improvements here and there, and I'm beginning to think it's my equivalent of a daughter who cares so little about fashion she goes out of her way to look (and smell) like an urchin. I wish I could somehow teach my offspring about the value of cleanliness withuot being a slave to mindless trends, but what's a mother (bookmonkey) to do?
Speaking of mothers, I talked to mine last night; every time I speak with her it's all that I can do not to sell off my stuff and move there *immediately*. I really think she's mellowed out enough where my deviant alternative lifestyle could be abided, and she really needs someone to get her out of the mess she's in...and maybe some companionship too. My sister is no help in either department, and she's intimated to me that I'm the only person who's lifted a finger to help her out of all the relatives she's called. She's behind on rent now (which has *somehow* ballooned to over $700), can't pay her cell phone bill, has trouble with gas and electric and just about every other bill she has. The city is still lagging behind on declaring her husband deceased so she can get his benefits (he's been missing for 10 years), her car is about to die, her yard is a mess, and she has chronic bronchitis that grew out of a punctured lung she suffered in a fall 18 months ago. How she's still *going* after all this time is beyond me. She's in a world of shit right now and there's very little I can do about it right now. Every time I think about it I want to panic and cry and hop on the next bus to Baltimore and get her out of this, but...I know that if I did that I wouldn't be able to go to Australia, or travel anywhere, or go to a monastery. There's this huge battle between being there for someone I love, devoting myself to her, and...living my life and helping as much as possible while doing so. I send her a good chunk of the extra money I have, and I call often, but...how much *good* is that doing?
I need to look at my options. I'm tempted to really push for her to move here; rent would be much, much lower, she'd be near me and living here is really easy. I think she'd really like being in Arkansas. But that would make leaving Fayetteville impossible for the next few years, even if I did travel for several months around the US and Australia. Besides, Baltimore is all she knows, and I'm not really sure she'd be ready to leave. She'd *need* me if she moved, absolutely without a doubt. I'm cool with that part, but my living space is about to be really up in the air next year, so...eh.
I love her. I just don't know what to do.
But, to change gears, the essay on the Fayetteville smoking ban is going all right. It's not good, by any stretch, but I'm going to finish it for posting here, and hopefully people can help me figure out how to make it better. One of the things I really want to do is get a bigger sense of humor about my writing. I know it's in me to let it go and not take things quite so seriously, but while I'm finding my own personal vein I come off as one of those really lame-ass third-rate country comedians; Bubba the Love Sponge or Roy D. Mercer. It's awful.
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Don (my boss) played Dwight Yoakam's <i>This Time</i> at work this afternoon because he is patently awesome.
Work was work was work; there's still a lot that's a mess, but I started culling old cookbooks from the Cooking section and managed to do a pretty decent job of it. Two bags from three shelves is quite a lot of old stuff about Jello molds that people aren't buying. Still, the Photography section continues to be in a shambles, despite improvements here and there, and I'm beginning to think it's my equivalent of a daughter who cares so little about fashion she goes out of her way to look (and smell) like an urchin. I wish I could somehow teach my offspring about the value of cleanliness withuot being a slave to mindless trends, but what's a mother (bookmonkey) to do?
Speaking of mothers, I talked to mine last night; every time I speak with her it's all that I can do not to sell off my stuff and move there *immediately*. I really think she's mellowed out enough where my deviant alternative lifestyle could be abided, and she really needs someone to get her out of the mess she's in...and maybe some companionship too. My sister is no help in either department, and she's intimated to me that I'm the only person who's lifted a finger to help her out of all the relatives she's called. She's behind on rent now (which has *somehow* ballooned to over $700), can't pay her cell phone bill, has trouble with gas and electric and just about every other bill she has. The city is still lagging behind on declaring her husband deceased so she can get his benefits (he's been missing for 10 years), her car is about to die, her yard is a mess, and she has chronic bronchitis that grew out of a punctured lung she suffered in a fall 18 months ago. How she's still *going* after all this time is beyond me. She's in a world of shit right now and there's very little I can do about it right now. Every time I think about it I want to panic and cry and hop on the next bus to Baltimore and get her out of this, but...I know that if I did that I wouldn't be able to go to Australia, or travel anywhere, or go to a monastery. There's this huge battle between being there for someone I love, devoting myself to her, and...living my life and helping as much as possible while doing so. I send her a good chunk of the extra money I have, and I call often, but...how much *good* is that doing?
I need to look at my options. I'm tempted to really push for her to move here; rent would be much, much lower, she'd be near me and living here is really easy. I think she'd really like being in Arkansas. But that would make leaving Fayetteville impossible for the next few years, even if I did travel for several months around the US and Australia. Besides, Baltimore is all she knows, and I'm not really sure she'd be ready to leave. She'd *need* me if she moved, absolutely without a doubt. I'm cool with that part, but my living space is about to be really up in the air next year, so...eh.
I love her. I just don't know what to do.
But, to change gears, the essay on the Fayetteville smoking ban is going all right. It's not good, by any stretch, but I'm going to finish it for posting here, and hopefully people can help me figure out how to make it better. One of the things I really want to do is get a bigger sense of humor about my writing. I know it's in me to let it go and not take things quite so seriously, but while I'm finding my own personal vein I come off as one of those really lame-ass third-rate country comedians; Bubba the Love Sponge or Roy D. Mercer. It's awful. <:)
I was also looking over poetry that I had written to mine for submissions to <i>Poesia</i> in a bit. Lauren, my queer comrade-in-arms at the Bookshop, was pretty encouraging about it; she really loved this poem I had written about this guy breaking up with his girlfriend. But then, all of my poems seem to be about break-ups that leave men horrifically heartbroken. It's a cute little phase, even if it has come about 7 years late. Anyway, I'll be posting drafts and revisions of poetry here in a couple days, but don't worry -- it'll be mercifully put behind a cut tag. :)
Sherri leaves for her big new teaching job in DeQueen on Sunday, and even though her apartment's being torn apart and both Riku and Cy are packing up too it still hasn't hit me that she's not going to be here. It probably won't until like, September, since she'll be here for my birthday next week and I'll be leaving for Austin and CA two weeks after that. When I'm back from vacation and eating in and really want someone I can just cool out and eat beans with while watching weird foreign movies, she won't be here, and I'll cry and cry. But that's all right, salt makes beans taste better.
It's been rainy here today, and I think that's affecting my mood. Also, I need to sleep a bit. Also, Odis is thinking about running a game or something soon if the stars align right. I think masturbating to that idea tonight just might be what I need to feel better. Also, "Accidentally In Love" by the Counting Crows played today on VH1; it was a completely different experience seeing that on TV and not my crappy little computer screen. "So she said I'm a snowball running..." I might have to buy that album on eBay *just* for that song. Also, after talking to Lauren earlier today I realize that I need Twin Peaks, and if I don't get it soon I might just have to bite off <user site="livejournal.com" user="tangpau">'s head and drink his blood or something. Because, you know, it's a good Twin Peaks-equivalent thing, arterial spray.
And with that, good night.
Work was work was work; there's still a lot that's a mess, but I started culling old cookbooks from the Cooking section and managed to do a pretty decent job of it. Two bags from three shelves is quite a lot of old stuff about Jello molds that people aren't buying. Still, the Photography section continues to be in a shambles, despite improvements here and there, and I'm beginning to think it's my equivalent of a daughter who cares so little about fashion she goes out of her way to look (and smell) like an urchin. I wish I could somehow teach my offspring about the value of cleanliness withuot being a slave to mindless trends, but what's a mother (bookmonkey) to do?
Speaking of mothers, I talked to mine last night; every time I speak with her it's all that I can do not to sell off my stuff and move there *immediately*. I really think she's mellowed out enough where my deviant alternative lifestyle could be abided, and she really needs someone to get her out of the mess she's in...and maybe some companionship too. My sister is no help in either department, and she's intimated to me that I'm the only person who's lifted a finger to help her out of all the relatives she's called. She's behind on rent now (which has *somehow* ballooned to over $700), can't pay her cell phone bill, has trouble with gas and electric and just about every other bill she has. The city is still lagging behind on declaring her husband deceased so she can get his benefits (he's been missing for 10 years), her car is about to die, her yard is a mess, and she has chronic bronchitis that grew out of a punctured lung she suffered in a fall 18 months ago. How she's still *going* after all this time is beyond me. She's in a world of shit right now and there's very little I can do about it right now. Every time I think about it I want to panic and cry and hop on the next bus to Baltimore and get her out of this, but...I know that if I did that I wouldn't be able to go to Australia, or travel anywhere, or go to a monastery. There's this huge battle between being there for someone I love, devoting myself to her, and...living my life and helping as much as possible while doing so. I send her a good chunk of the extra money I have, and I call often, but...how much *good* is that doing?
I need to look at my options. I'm tempted to really push for her to move here; rent would be much, much lower, she'd be near me and living here is really easy. I think she'd really like being in Arkansas. But that would make leaving Fayetteville impossible for the next few years, even if I did travel for several months around the US and Australia. Besides, Baltimore is all she knows, and I'm not really sure she'd be ready to leave. She'd *need* me if she moved, absolutely without a doubt. I'm cool with that part, but my living space is about to be really up in the air next year, so...eh.
I love her. I just don't know what to do.
But, to change gears, the essay on the Fayetteville smoking ban is going all right. It's not good, by any stretch, but I'm going to finish it for posting here, and hopefully people can help me figure out how to make it better. One of the things I really want to do is get a bigger sense of humor about my writing. I know it's in me to let it go and not take things quite so seriously, but while I'm finding my own personal vein I come off as one of those really lame-ass third-rate country comedians; Bubba the Love Sponge or Roy D. Mercer. It's awful. <:)
I was also looking over poetry that I had written to mine for submissions to <i>Poesia</i> in a bit. Lauren, my queer comrade-in-arms at the Bookshop, was pretty encouraging about it; she really loved this poem I had written about this guy breaking up with his girlfriend. But then, all of my poems seem to be about break-ups that leave men horrifically heartbroken. It's a cute little phase, even if it has come about 7 years late. Anyway, I'll be posting drafts and revisions of poetry here in a couple days, but don't worry -- it'll be mercifully put behind a cut tag. :)
Sherri leaves for her big new teaching job in DeQueen on Sunday, and even though her apartment's being torn apart and both Riku and Cy are packing up too it still hasn't hit me that she's not going to be here. It probably won't until like, September, since she'll be here for my birthday next week and I'll be leaving for Austin and CA two weeks after that. When I'm back from vacation and eating in and really want someone I can just cool out and eat beans with while watching weird foreign movies, she won't be here, and I'll cry and cry. But that's all right, salt makes beans taste better.
It's been rainy here today, and I think that's affecting my mood. Also, I need to sleep a bit. Also, Odis is thinking about running a game or something soon if the stars align right. I think masturbating to that idea tonight just might be what I need to feel better. Also, "Accidentally In Love" by the Counting Crows played today on VH1; it was a completely different experience seeing that on TV and not my crappy little computer screen. "So she said I'm a snowball running..." I might have to buy that album on eBay *just* for that song. Also, after talking to Lauren earlier today I realize that I need Twin Peaks, and if I don't get it soon I might just have to bite off <user site="livejournal.com" user="tangpau">'s head and drink his blood or something. Because, you know, it's a good Twin Peaks-equivalent thing, arterial spray.
And with that, good night.
